Scholarship Recommendation Letters

GuideUpdated October 27, 20267 min read

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A recommendation letter is one of the few parts of a scholarship application that someone else writes. That makes it feel out of your hands, but you can do a lot to help it be strong. Choosing the right person, asking at the right time and giving them useful information make the difference between a generic letter and one that supports your application with real detail.

Requirements vary by award, and no letter guarantees a result. This guide is general information about good practice.

What a recommendation does

A recommender gives the reviewers an outside view of you. They can describe your work, character and potential in ways that you cannot say about yourself. A good letter confirms the claims in your application and adds examples that show what it is like to teach, supervise or work with you.

Reviewers read letters for specifics, such as what you did, how you handled challenges and how you compare with others the writer has known. Vague praise does little. Concrete stories help.

Who to ask

Choose someone who knows you well in a setting relevant to the award.

  • A teacher or professor who taught you in a subject that relates to your plans and saw your work and growth.
  • A school or college counselor who knows your history and context.
  • A supervisor or employer, especially for awards that value work experience.
  • A coach, mentor or community leader, for awards that emphasize leadership or service.
  • A research supervisor, for graduate and science awards.

Think about what the award values and who can speak to it. A well-known name matters less than a person who can write in detail. Avoid relatives and close friends, unless the instructions allow it.

When to ask

Give people plenty of time. A strong letter takes thought, and busy teachers may be writing for many students.

  1. Ask at least four weeks before the deadline, and earlier for competitive awards.
  2. Ask in person or by a polite message, not at the last minute.
  3. Allow time for reminders. A gentle nudge a week before the date is acceptable.
  4. Avoid peak periods if you can, such as the weeks around application season.

If the deadline is close, be honest about it, and be prepared for a refusal.

How to ask

A good request is respectful and easy to say yes to.

  • Ask whether they feel able to write a strong letter. This gives them an easy way to decline.
  • Explain the award and why you are applying.
  • State the deadline and how the letter must be submitted.
  • Offer to provide information to help them write.

For example: "I am applying for a scholarship in nursing, and I would be grateful if you felt able to write a recommendation. The deadline is in five weeks. I can send you my resume and some notes about what I have done in your class."

What to give your recommender

Make their job easier by providing:

  1. The award's name and description, and what it values.
  2. The deadline and submission method, including any links or forms.
  3. Your resume or list of activities.
  4. A short statement of your goals and why you are applying.
  5. Reminders of specific work, such as a project, paper or event you did with them.
  6. Any instructions from the provider, such as length or topics.
  7. Stamped envelopes or portal details, if needed.

Put everything in one email or folder. Do not tell them what to say, but do remind them of the details they might forget.

Waivers and confidentiality

Many applications ask whether you waive your right to see the letter. Waiving gives the reader confidence that the writer was free to be candid. It is common, and many students choose to waive. If you have concerns, ask your recommender about their approach and read the instructions. The decision is yours.

Applying to several awards

If you are applying to many scholarships, manage the workload thoughtfully.

  • Tell your recommender how many letters you need. Be honest, and do not overload them.
  • Send a clear list with deadlines and links.
  • Group them by similar themes so they can reuse material.
  • Prioritize the awards that matter most.
  • Keep track in your tracker of which letters have been submitted.

Keep every award's materials in one folder so you can reuse them.

What a strong letter contains

A strong letter usually includes:

  • How the writer knows you, and for how long.
  • Specific examples of your work, character and impact.
  • Comparison with others, where relevant, such as among the best students they have taught.
  • Qualities that match the award, such as leadership, perseverance or curiosity.
  • Honest context, such as challenges you have faced.
  • A clear statement of support.

You can encourage this by reminding your recommender of examples, but the content is theirs.

Follow up and say thank you

After you ask:

  1. Confirm that they have what they need.
  2. Send a polite reminder a week before the deadline.
  3. Check that the letter was submitted, if the system tells you.
  4. Thank them, with a handwritten note or a considerate message.
  5. Let them know the result, whether you win or not. They usually care.

Gratitude builds relationships, and you may well need that person again for another application or a job reference.

If someone says no

Sometimes a person declines. They may be too busy, may not know you well enough or may not feel able to write a strong letter. Thank them for their honesty, and ask someone else. A polite no is better than a lukewarm letter. Do not take it personally.

If time is short, consider a recommender who knows you in a different setting.

Questions to ask your recommender

  1. Do you feel able to write a strong letter for this award?
  2. Is there anything else you would like to know about me or the scholarship?
  3. When would you like the information, and when will you submit the letter?
  4. Would you like a reminder before the deadline?

These questions show respect for their time and make the process smooth.

Recommendations for graduate and international awards

Graduate and international awards often ask for letters from academic referees who can compare you with other students at a high level. They may also require formal letterhead, specific forms or online systems. Check the instructions and the format early, and tell your referees how to submit. If the award is in another country, ask whether letters in your language are accepted or whether translation is needed.

Letters for different kinds of award

An academic award calls for a letter about your intellectual strengths, a service award about your commitment and character, and a leadership award about how you guide and support others. Tell your recommender what the award emphasizes, and remind them of examples that fit. A single person may write quite different letters for different awards if they know the criteria, so be clear about each one.

Common mistakes

  • Asking too late.
  • Choosing someone who barely knows you.
  • Giving no information.
  • Choosing a recommender for their title only.
  • Forgetting to follow up.
  • Overloading one recommender with many requests.
  • Not saying thank you.

A worked example

Imagine a student applying for a science scholarship. She asks her chemistry teacher six weeks before the deadline, explains the award and offers a folder with her resume, the award description and a short list of lab projects they worked on. The teacher writes a letter describing her persistence on a failed experiment and her work mentoring classmates. The student thanks the teacher with a note and tells her when she wins.

The result is a letter with real stories, and a stronger relationship.

A quick checklist

  • Have I chosen someone who knows me well in a relevant setting?
  • Have I asked early and politely?
  • Have I given them the information they need?
  • Do I know the deadline and submission method?
  • Have I followed up and said thank you?

Final thoughts

A good recommendation letter starts with a good choice of writer and a thoughtful request. Ask early, supply the details and show your appreciation. You cannot write the letter yourself, but you can make it easier for someone to write a good one.

Frequently asked questions

Who should write my recommendation?

Someone who knows you well in a relevant setting, such as a teacher, professor, counselor, supervisor or mentor, and who can speak specifically about your strengths.

How early should I ask?

At least a month before the deadline, and earlier if the person is busy or writing for many students.

Can a family member write one?

Usually not. Providers generally want an independent person who knows your work. Check the award's instructions.

Should I waive the right to see the letter?

Many applicants do, since confidential letters may carry more weight, but follow the instructions and your own comfort.

What if my recommender says no?

Thank them and ask someone else. A polite no is better than a weak letter.